reading reflection

I read an article about relationship between with people around me. According to “10 ways to Lose All Your Friends”, written by Jeff Haden (April 12, 2014), 10 ways or behaviors to lose friends exist. Firstly, you thoughtlessly waste other people’s time. Secondly, you ignore people outside your “level.” Thirdly, you ask for too much. Fourthly, you ignore people in genuine need. Fifthly, you ask a question so you can talk. Sixthly, you pull a “Do you know who I am?” Seventhly, you don’t dial it back. Eighthly, you mistake self-deprecation for permission. Ninthly, you humblebrag. Humblebrag is form that people brag their ability or good point without appearing of humility. Finally, you push your opinions.

This article’s title was interesting so I chose this article. It is a creative title. It attracted me. I think the first, second and tenth are worst. I often see people who waste other people’s time. I actually seem to this person. These people usually late an appointment or meeting. Nobody likes to wait someone in appointment.  I think second way is underestimating someone. I hate this behavior so I always be careful in this behavior. In conclusion, I think this article give advices how to success in interpersonal relation.

http://time.com/60460/10-quick-ways-to-lose-all-your-friends/